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05-11-2016
01:22 PM

I am not normally one to make friends with the stranger sitting next to me on an airplane. But, this time was different. On September 20, 2014, I was on my way home to San Diego from Chicago, where I had been a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding. Tom was catching a connecting flight from his way home to San Diego from a vacation. He was rushing to catch the plane, and was one of the last to board. Thank goodness, Southwest doesn’t have assigned seats! It was a full flight. I was anxiously waiting to see who I would be stuck with for the next five hours of my life. Then I saw him making his way to the seat next to me. I thought, “Of course this good looking man is going to sit right next to me when I look like this!” It was an early morning flight, my hair was a mess and I wasn’t wearing any make up. “Oh good, he’s wearing headphones, he probably won’t talk to me.” But, I am so glad that I was wrong. Before the plane had even left the gate, my heart was pounding and we were deep into a conversation and realizing just how much we had in common. “Thomas Modifica Jr.” – when he told me his name I replied, “I’m not going to remember that!” We talked for hours. I heard all about his dog that he missed so very much while he was on a month-long trip to Europe. Then, I watched a movie on my laptop, and he watched the entire thing over my shoulder and with no sound he laughed at every joke. We laughed until we cried over a "Cat Lady Mirror" in SkyMall Magazine. We had an undeniable spark. So much so, that I even pretended to fall asleep and let my leg touch his just for a minute. He still says that at that moment, he pretended that we were married and coming home from a trip together and imagined what our life together would be like. He made me feel so comfortable. In just a five-hour flight, I had let down my wall and felt that I could fully be myself with this person. So what now? I was reluctant to add a stranger on social media when he had asked. The flight was about to land. Would this just be a fleeting moment that I would always remember and wonder what could have been? That spark that we had was unlike anything I had experienced. As we were deplaning, it took me an extra few minutes to locate my carry on and get off of the plane. I had lost sight of him. I should have given him my number. I should have just added him on social media! Then, as I walked into the airport, there he was waiting for me. He handed me his business card and told me that he had sensed a connection between us and to be in touch if I ever changed my mind. I was such an idiot. I clutched onto the card and then uttered, “Have fun with your dog!” Have fun with your dog? What kind of a response was that? He must think I definitely didn’t return his feelings of a connection. I started to feel a hot sweat come over me and I rushed to the nearest restroom. I literally stood there for at least five minutes deciding what to do with his card. I tucked it into my wallet. It took me a couple of months to contact him. During those months, I thought about him often. I talked about him, too! My friends and family came to know him as, “The plane guy”. When the time was right, I finally reached out. I thought for sure that he wouldn’t remember me. But, he knew instantly who I was.



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