I have a similar issue. My son and his wife live out West, and we live in NJ.
I'd LOVE to see his home, spend time with the daughter in law that I adore, and to play with Grand-doggie.
My son travels with his job, so we see him a few times a year.
Problem is--my two British Shorthairs are very attached to me. I could never board them! They would have to go with me. I would have to also stay in a hotel, because son and DIL both insist they are allergic to my girls, and Grand-doggie is deathly afraid of them!!
Hubby has said he would not deal with cats on a plane flight, nor will he stay home with the girls. When we only had 1 cat, I went to my son's boot camp graduation in SC, and Hubby stayed home-- my Gigi barfed all over my living room and pooped on the litter box rug until I came home.
Is there a way for me to go and see my son and DIL without traumatizing my cats, and having a nervous breakdown??
Ideally I'd like to take Hubby AND the cats.
Thank you.
