Hmm, sounds fine to me. You were told to follow the FAA regulations, and got annoyed apparently. Then you were called "lovey" when he helped you find your boarding pass. The rest of the fracas was initiated by you and your husband. I'm surprised if he works in the industry, he didn't realize that's common vernacular for male flight attendants, and possibly also gate agents. So, much ado about nothing. You are frankly being uptight and overly sensitive. You'll get no sympathy from most folks here, I suspect. In short, "Relax, Karen".
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